First off, I made allowances for you to book for your father with the understanding that you read through my listing’s description carefully and thoroughly so that you would pass the information along to him.
My listing did not include an air conditioner as an amenity at the time of your booking (I have since installed one, just yesterday). If this was something important to your father when, you would have read my description all the way through and have seen that and informed your father. So, I'm not sure why this came at such a surprise. If it's not listed, it's not included.
The bed as I listed is a FULL-SIZE bed, again if you had read my listing's description clearly, you would have noted that and informed your father. Your father is a tall and big man, and when booking for him, if you had communicated this information to him, maybe he could have told you that a full-size bed may not suit his needs. Although I've never had complaints in the past by other individuals similar in size to him. Plus, his wife is smaller than an average size woman. But if your father is use to sleeping in a King size bed, that is not my listing.
I conclude it is your lack of communication with your father and not mine with your's or his that is the cause of the miscommunications of what I provide in my apartment. Which, at this present time does not come as a surprise to me, seeing how he got lost trying to find my apartment (once in the building), AFTER I had given you SPECIFIC and DETAILED directions on which elevator he needed to take to get to my front door. It wasn’t complicated. And your father even stated to me upon arrival that you had forgotten to inform him to the instructions of getting to my front door.
Additionally, stated in my listing (again) that smoking was not allowed, however, your father still asked me if he can smoke in my apartment if he opened a window. No smoking in the apartment of any kind means no smoking in the apartment of any kind. I don't know how much clearer that can be.
I would caution any future host considering you as a guest (or you booking for soemone else)to be very specific and confirm (and reconfirm) their amenities with you when you request your next stay.