I am really astonished by:
1. Your comment. You asked me whether you could smoke, and I said I you could, although my flat is non smoker (in my kitchen (closed room), open window). If my guests don't smoke, I don't smoke, (except i my kitchen). if they smoke, like you, I can smoke too. I never had any complaint or remark from other guests on this point, as I respect my guests. Therefore, I will apply more strictly my rules in the future.
2. Your review. You put a 4/5 for "global experience", which is inconsistent with the 5/5 you put on each other items ( "communication"/"arrival" etc... experiences), and which is not coherent neither with the very nice private comment (therefore not visible for people who are consulting my comments) posted by your husband, Richard. This is jeopardizing my superhost status, and I take it as a very serious matter.
As you mentions wine in your comments, I should also specify that I offered you and Richard a glass of Porto (Romanian Porto's style to be precise) and I didn't anticipated you would drink half (or almost) the bottle. Potential hosts should also be aware of that.
Therefore, I regret my initial review related to you, and I warn all Airbnb hosts, and in particular superhosts, on the risk of unfair comments and review if hosting you. I am sorry for Richard who, again, is a very nice person.